TO BE OR NOT TO BE?

As we welcome Venus into her home sign of Libra from August 16, 2021 - September 9, 2021 we may find ourselves more focused on our relationships. Shannon gives us advice on how to tap into our internal knowing to know if our partners are “The One”!

From an oracle’s perspective, what are ways to tell whether you can really trust your partner or not? 

In order to tap into our higher selves and get a clear message from the Universe, we must begin with the intention to go within. The universe will send subtle signs if it’s trying to tell you your partner isn’t the one.

If you have a nagging feeling that won’t go away, the first place to go first is inside yourself. it’s important to distinguish if your trust issues are leftover wounds from a past relationship or genuine intuition. 

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What are ways to amplify the quality of messages we receive?

Set up a space or container for yourself to explore the feelings or thoughts coming up. Meditation and prayer are powerful tools to set the space to go within. Ask to be connected to your Higher Self. Then, ask if it is in your highest good to move forward in the current relationship.

If sensations and feelings radiate in the heart center, the answer is “YES”. If a sensation generates from the solar plexus or the gut, the answer is a loud “NO”.

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In general, how does the universe deliver messages to us about relationships? 

We are constantly being given messages and signs from the Universe, our Angels, our Higher Self. The Universe loves when we engage our Angels and Divine Forces in asking for a sign!  Every person is different, so the Universe will use symbols important to the individual.

For example, some universal signs of a “yes” or “move forward’ are butterflies or certain birds flying or perching close to you. Hummingbirds, songbirds represent joy and quick expansion of a relationship. Blue or yellow birds represent wisdom and alignment with your Angels/Divine Self, signaling an important, spiritually connected relationship of depth.

Hawks, falcons, eagles represent you needing to mature yourself to match the growth of your relationship and union of depth. Crows, ravens, blackbirds are usually communicating a need for discernment or reassessment of the relationship. 

Numbers are other powerful signs the Universe uses to communicate with us, especially for the more linear-minded. Seeing numbers in 3’s(111,222,333, etc..) is always a positive sign. Seeing repetitive 1’s, 4’s, 7’s, or 8’s, means maybe you need to do more work on yourself before being in a relationship OR if in a relationship, focus your attention on self-improvement, then take your growth to the relationship.

Repetitive 2’s or  6’s, signs are deeply positive for a harmonious union while repetitive 3’s or 5’s, needs to lighten up and you’re overthinking. Lastly, 9’s represent endings...sometimes of the relationship or of a hard phase, the relationship has been in.

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What are subtle signs the universe will send you to indicate that your partner really isn't "The One”? 

If you constantly feel like you have to adjust your nature, identity, for the sake of peace in your relationship, your partner is probably not “The One”. The Universe usually communicates this to us through our emotional body. It never feels quite safe enough to relax or “let your core go” in the relationship. 

A sign that you are with “The One” is a feeling of clarity accompanied by a stillness. Instead of looking for the fireworks or intense passion, which are usually karmic lures to get you engaged in a self-growth relationship, look for that balanced feeling.

The “One” will probably be different from you by complementing your deficits and you complimenting their deficits. Being together creates a feeling of “ahhh” and centeredness, which is a beautiful perfect base to build a life partnership on!